But we are changing in different ways." Life and career 1957–1969: Early life. “I had a big crush on him, but he was with Melanie Griffith. This included the likes of Antonio Banderas and Don Johnson. "But especially if you’re 60 and you have four kids and you’re living the life you’ve always wanted," she Johnson married Kelly Phleger, a teacher, in 1999, and the two have three children together.